From this point, YOU are changing because you are ready for change. Change is a process….a goal…a life. You’ll have to embrace change because we are beings of this Earth. No matter how many lifetimes we have, the golden rule is, we exist on this plane to grow. There is no growth without change. There is no change that illuminates without evolution.YES! You are here to evolve. Therefore, your goal in your life is to evolve as many times as you possibly can; because you were never meant to have or to be LESS.
Separate, Cleanse Death, and then Rebirth.
These four words are my methods to accept, embrace, become, and evolve with change. I would hope you can take on this method if you have no other, because you are a creation without limitations. You just don’t know it yet.
Separate
Separate yourself from the very thing that holds you back. You have goals, self-made promises, and a much larger motive to live in this world of complications. You could use one less complication in your life, whether that may be a shitty job, an unhealthy relationship, grief or depression, or your own self-pity. I said it! You shouldn’t pity yourself for too long. If you do, and you wonder why you’re losing supporting people, you need to look inside! You’ll see that you’re chasing people away without even throwing a single punch. In conclusion, if you need to separate yourself from who you no longer need to be, cut the cords. You are no longer that person if you don’t want to be them.
Cleanse
After you separate yourself from your shackles, it is time for you to heal. Take this moment to cry, laugh, dance, shake it off, and cleanse yourself because you are opening a door to a new opportunity… to a better life. You are in this moment to make sure that you, from this point, are capable of conquering everything in your path. You will no longer be unprepared. You are, in this stage, strengthening your inner core, because you are about to experience a death.
Death
Death is the ultimate form of separation. It is also the most misunderstood phase of transition because it is oftentime rejected in its idea. Never reject that which you don’t understand. Instead, make sure you are ready for this step. You will never be the same afterwards. Death is where you go inside yourself and understand why you need this change, as well as why you made the sacrifices that you did. Once this is done, you make the final release.
I, being the eccentric woman that I am, will kill myself, quite figeratively in order to accept change and create a new life for it.
Here’s an example of what death looks like. You just went through a breakup. Your life is about to turn around. As this process begins: A. You are separated from your former significant other; B. You heal from the hurt of the separation, and are coming to terms with a new life without them. What will that look like?; C. You are acknowledging what this new life will look like, and why you made the choices that you did. Now you are deleting the person that you once were before this breakup because you have to learn from your mistakes. You have to strive on in life, learning that you are no longer this person. You are dead in that aspect. Why? You don’t want to be that person that didn’t receive what you deserved. And you definitely do not want to be that person that never got over their past heartbreak. You deserve better. Kill that grief, that self-loathe, and the unworthiness that which is no longer you.
Death is never a bad thing. It’s simply another form of existence, as light is to dark. You need both polar opposites to truly become more…more of anything you choose to believe in. So yes, after you’ve cleansed yourself, after you have built your inner core and come to terms with what you are processing, you must go through a death (whether it is of yourself or your world), to allow room for a rebirth.
Rebirth
Change is of its essence. You are here now to live the life you deserve, based off of the goals you made in the very beginning. You want a better job? Here it is! It’s coming now, because you are ready! You want a better lover? Sure, that too is coming! You want a better life? Yes, you can have it! You had to go through the dark to get to your light. The dark does not always mean bad. In most cases, the dark simply means that you had to go deep inside to truly understand, and attract the things you want. The dark is so misunderstood, people reject it. You can’t dismiss the dark without the light. You are the dark and the light! You experienced death, and now you are reborn to change…to evolve!
Never forget that no matter what you must go through, you will always make it out. If you follow these steps to make it through change, you will be able to undergo anything. This process of change is not easy, but it is full of purpose. Remember, change is an imminent being in your lifetime. Never be afraid of change. You only have to know how to respond to change; because in the end of the day, deep down, you have wanted this all along. Now, it is manifested.
What a Power!
Nonna 