Energy Waste

When I was younger, I had a friend always tell me, there are many things we can get back like money. Yet some things in life are unattainable after it is gone. This particular individual had no patience for anyone who set out to waste the sacredtime

I learned a bit from this old friend, because he was right. Life should be taken more kindly to our mortal aching bodies. Somehow, we all seem to take advantage of the future; it will never be quite as we expect it to be. So hats off to you, old friend, for this valuable lesson. But I have found another valuable commodity worth saving for the lives we currently have.


Although energy can neither be created or destroyed, energy is transferred in and outside of ourselves during many moments of our existence. It travels in, and you are thriving, energetic, pulsating, and conquering. When it leaves you, you are exhausted, crashing, shrinking, and sinking within your body that feels on the verge of crumbling. Although energy can always come back to you, it’s always way harder to gain the conquistador vibe. It takes more work, more self care, more careful consideration, AND sacrifice. 

Energy need not be wasted...

When I’m not writing to you, or healing the world one spell at a time, I am a restaurant server. Before this virus situation started, I was serving. And when chaos hit the fan, I was given a chance to understand what life is like when you place your energy in what you love. I wrote, sang, danced, meditated, and for the first time, I opened my mouth. I created Nonna. Who knew that once you look up from your work, there lies a life truly… worth… living?!

I was raised to work hard with everything I do. To this day, I stand by that motto, unless I see the option to work smarter. 

This year I find myself and the people around me being more drained than the day before. Some of us look after our diet. Some of us, our extracurricular activities. But to understand the process of regular holistic healing is to see our life from the WHOLE PICTURE. 

I decided I wanted to be an energy healer, and guide not only because I felt called to bring powerful change in the self, but also to receive the same amount of energy that I give.

As a server living under tips, many people do not understand that we rely on tips to pay our bills, save money, and pay our taxes. People often find it to be an option to tip, but my job is just like yours. When you agree to work somewhere, you expect to be given the amount of pay according to what you’ve agreed to give. There is no agreement in the restaurant, because not every guest understands that tipping is MANDATORY instead of a gracious gesture. When I receive tips, my clients are the ones who give the final call of how much I get paid.

I work for vampires. You more than likely do too. We…give more energy out than is put back into us

This very statement is the reason why many healers today argue over whether their gifts should be given for profit. My dear healers, you came into this world to make it better. How do you expect to put forth the energy to change the grooves in the sand, if you are always losing the force to make it happen? Healers, we are already being watched and hunted down because we are meant to empower each other. Don’t let your passions get in the way of your purpose here.

Energy may come and go, but you deserve more…always. You deserve to look up from the work table and smell the aroma of life. You deserve to understand just what it means to be made of energy, and in control of it. 

The first step to understanding energy is discovering where you put your energy, why, and what you prefer to do with it. Your energy is sacred. You are sacred. Do not let this world turn you into a battery for something other than your own design. 

Published by Nonna

Inspired by the worlds around me, I created Nonna, an alternative healing spa and life coaching experience. Nonna heals the mind, body, and soul; for you are an interconnected metaphysical being capable of changing your life, understanding yourself and others around you, and manifesting what you need with the drop of a hat. The works of Nonna are as practical as they are eye opening! What if...we took the mystery out of life, and saw things for what they really are. What would you do, with what you know?

3 thoughts on “Energy Waste

  1. “Yet some things in life are unattainable after it is gone” The same thing can be said about the mind. Think about how much time elapses without ever taking continuous deep dives into our minds. One of our greatest gifts is the privilege and opportunity to excavate the cognitive treasures found within our *limitless* gold mine.

    *Winston N. Johnson* *Sound Designer/Audio Technician* 404-343-9653 *Grounded.Positive.Professional.*

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  2. Awesome post. It made me think of when I quit my job to write full-time. My job got emotionally draining because I too was working for “vampires.” Since I’ve left, I have the time to really stop, smell the roses, and enjoy life a little more. That has restored some of my energy. Thank you so much for posting, Nonna. 🙂


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