Category Archives: Relationships

I will forever be confused by those romance movies who portray an “amazing love” between a character who clings too hard on another who doesn’t know how to love. In reality, we would consider that to be a very unhealthy relationship. Apart from the level ten clinger who probably has some internal turmoil of theContinue reading “Self-Loathing is Not Cute”

Setting boundaries can be a little uncomfortable when you’re not used to making them. However, you have been groomed with boundaries all around you! “You can’t get a certain job unless you do this. Don’t put your feet or elbows on the table, it’s rude! You can’t just point out people’s flaws, it makes themContinue reading “Set Your Boundaries!”

This society has an identity problem.  What one person can see, another person may not be able to. If an individual is brave enough to share their perception of the elephant (referenced to the tale of the blind men and the elephant), others are usually resistant to their opinion, fearing that someone’s ideas will takeContinue reading “World Identity Crisis”

Relationships aren’t as easy-going as the movies make them out to be. However, they should not be as hard as pushing a boulder uphill. If a relationship causes you more stress than it does happiness, it’s time to rethink what you deserve. Compromise in a relationship is a necessity.  After talking to a number ofContinue reading “This is Not Okay…In Relationships”

Life is not as complicated as we think it is.  I’ve lived long enough to know one thing: each gender thinks the opposite sex is an unfathomable conundrum. How did we get so far from each other, knowing that we have fallen from the same tree? I am not here to fix this problem. ThisContinue reading “Relationships… (Should Not Be)… This Hard”

What is the best way to control the masses? Divide and conquer. You are a mediator of life, death, and everything in between. You are simply unaware of the fact that you have control of these qualities. As humans, we experience many emotions like unity, loneliness, detachment, and creativity. We encounter events like the birthContinue reading “Feeling Disconnected? Be the Empathizer”

You know that feeling you get…when you realize for the first time that no one understands you? Well, that means you’ve made it to the end of an era, and the potential beginning of another. It is a significant point in time when your subconscious screams out: You don’t have to limit yourself. In thatContinue reading “Choose Your Tribe”

DON’T DO IT!! Life is scary for a hopeless romantic! You darling souls are just looking for something to love, and end up treading through some really dark places to find it! Having all the love in the world to give, and no one to give it to is truly a burden…until you realize thatContinue reading “Do Not Look for the Potential of Your Suitor!”

Oh love. Being in love and inexperienced with the concept is a beautiful thing! Or a tragic thing… At this point your love story can go in any direction. YOu can grow old with them, and die together like in the notebook. You can break up two years later, because someone needs to move on.Continue reading “Sex is Not Love”

Life is hard. Relationships, however, are a tad bit harder because you’re already figuring out the conundrums of life, while intimately working together with one, outside of your many personalities. To those new to the dating game, I’ve come to understand that long term relationships truly take hard work. Please understand that in every beginningContinue reading “Surviving the Romance Swine”